I had a boyfriend once who family called me a gold digger. I worked 2 jobs, sold cupcakes on he side and I was the gold digger. 🤔 “How Sway?”
Real gold diggers ain’t checking for yall if aren’t making at least six figures.
Literally!
And it gotta be over $250K too
also let’s all just take a moment to marvel at the fact that women were supposed to marry for money, were married off by their families for money and for political and economic benefits, until recently–and this still goes on. it was the smart thing to do, if you didn’t then you were disowned. but once women get to choose for themselves, ohhh now it’s wrong to do exactly what people expected, forced women to do since the dawn of time. this development is nothing but trying to punish women for having autonomy: damned if you do, damned if you dont; either you ruin yourself or people will ruin things for you.
Yeah, this always makes me so f’ing angry. Like, there is still a wage gap and there is still a fucktonne if insecurity with so many women not being able to afford retirement and even ending up homeless in middle age, and how hard it can be to get work, and yet if we want a man who has a job and is financially responsible and accountable, suddenly we’re shallow????
Yep. and not to mention how ugly (sexist, let’s be real) people gotta be to say there’s no such thing as a rich man who’s worth marrying for who he is, since obviously there’s only one reason to marry a man like that and it’s only ever his MONEY.
